(sexual but serious question) is this true or only for some..?

okay like what really makes an orgasm happen?? because my sister said that when her and her husband have sex he finishes but she never has that orgasm never.. only if she rubbs her G spot.. but that sucks right?? so how come she cant orgasm while haveing sex...?? is this for everyone??


because for me im still a vergin but i have done things with my boyfriend but he hasnt made me orgasm eather.. so is there a trick to make yourself orgasm or is it only when you rub your G spot.. or what.. because its kind of annoying when you just keep going and going and your boyfriend is finish but its takeing you forever to get done.... can you please help me with some info i should kno about..? or any tricks that might help... please.. and thankyou(sexual but serious question) is this true or only for some..?
What he has to do is stimulate the clitoris. Rubbing it in a circular motion always worked for me.(sexual but serious question) is this true or only for some..?
I thought you said you were a virgin...but you are having sex with your boyfriend? Do you only consider it sex if he penetrates you? Ok then...whatever.





The reason your sister is not having an orgasm is because your brother-in-law is putting his needs before hers. Shame on him.





The reason you are not having an orgasm is because you are getting annoyed. Why are both your brother-in-law and your boyfriend so concerned with their own needs? Are they in a race? It seems like both of them are terrible lovers. For a woman, an orgasm is not forced. A woman has to be either relaxed or extremely aroused. With sex, time should be forgotten.





For your boyfriend and bro-in-law...concentrate on your mate and not your own happy ending.
haha oh you poor kid. First off, fingers or tongue or whatever is no substitute for the real thing. Get me? And when the real thing DOES happen, the orgasm will happen. One way or another. Try a different position if you need to. I used to have a girl that never came and then one day it started happening more and more. Eventually, it became a usual thing. Don't think too much about it. Just do it. Feel it. And find yourself a good guy who wants you to finish. (trust me, it's a pretty powerful feeling)
Well the clitoris is very sensitive and normally results in the big O if stimulated in the correct way. The G spot is just up on the inside of the vagina and normally stimulated during normal sex although depending on the angle of entry this may not occur. I once met a girl who did not seam to have one and could only get off by having her clit stimulated.
first your g-spot is located somewhere inside the walls of your vagina...what your sister may be rubbing is her clitoris which stimulates the vagina and causes a female to get wet. orgasms happen when the male reaches that spot in your vaginal walls that make you want to climb the walls =P


good luck on your first time


p.s foreplay is very helpful
It's pretty common. A lot of women don't orgasm during sex.
His stuff may be small. Extenze.
Yes use spell check.
just having him inside you should do it
The G-spot is an area on a persons body that causes sexual arousal when it is touched or otherwise stimulated in some way, and specifically in the right way... Most ppl have more than one and men have them as well, i.e. the penis!





The clitoris is a G-spot for the vast majority of all women. Most women have another G-spot located about one to three inches inside the vagina, on the anterior wall. Some women report that stimulation of parts of the posterior wall of the urethra and the anterior wall of the anus at about the same depth creates a similar intense sensation and stimulation. For literally every person their G-spots are specific to them, in that their exact locations and the exact extent of their sensitivity is unique for each person.





Many women also have G-spots on the backs of their necks, the backs of their upper and lower legs, and on the breast area primarily located closer to the nipple, although some women have reported that the entire breast area is its own G-spot. If you want to know how to obtain orgasm, especially if a person is having trouble attaining one, i.e. you, your sister, then you need to explore your body and find out where your G-spots are located, i.e. masturbation! Many women have reported that they can obtain orgasm thru masturbation but not thru sexual intercourse, and vice versa, and this is typically caused by a persons ignorance of their own body, the reality that they don't express in detail what areas of their body are this kind of sensitive to their lovers, and the reality that their lovers are selfish PIGS, which seems to be the case with your bf and your sisters husband. It is also common for multiple factors to be amalgamated, meaning that there is more than one reason that a person is having such trouble obtaining orgasm. If a person works hard enough, is attentive enough, and is being given and is receiving the proper information then they can obtain orgasm...in their lovers and in themselves!





I highly suggest researching this subject in great detail, and NOT by asking other ppl what they think but, by reading up on this subject. The links that I provided are a great place to start.











On a different note, if you increase the effectiveness of your skills in grammar, reading, spelling, writing (typing), and English comprehension, specifically when asking questions, you will increase the likelihood that someone will respond with a response and/or an answer which would help you! And if you do this when answering/responding (to) questions you will increase the likelihood that you will help someone else.





Please, work on this!!
Are you sure you mean G-spot and not the clitoris? The clitoris is that little knob barely above the opening of the vagina. Is usually covered by this little hood. The G-spot is on the upper wall of the vagina about 2 inches in give or take. Well, depends who you ask because scientist say that the G-spot doesn't really technically exist. What it is or so they say is that you are stimulating the the urethral sponge.





You have to remember that men and woman are different. It usaly takes a woman longer to reach orgasm than a man and it is also true that most of the time a woman will need clitorial stimulation to reach orgasm. Note that this doesn't mean it is always true. It means that the most common way for a woman to orgasm is thru the stimulation of the clitoris and not by penetration. Although it is possible to achieve orgasm by penetration alone. Just not as common. Every woman is different.





I will tell you what the secret to sex is. Is actually very simple yet it seems to be very hard for people to do even for myself. The secret to great sex is (drum roll)............................... communication. Yep, is communication. No technique in the kamasutra nor pron is going to make sex great more than communication with your partner. The reason is simple. I know how my body works. I know what feels good and what doesn't and I know how to reach orgasm, and know when I'm about to reach orgasm. this is because i have a direct feedback line to my body. However, I have no way to know how you feel. My neural connections are not attached to your body so all I can do is listen and observe your reactions. this is the reason men like to hear woman moan because is an indication that they are doing something right. Anyways, if you don't tell your partner how to do things right there is no way for him or her to know.





You sister needs to tell her husband to be more patient and teach him how her body works. Once he learns he will apply what he learn and make her happy in bed. Men are not psychic and woman don't come with an instruction manual. If you don't say anything we will assume we are doing things right.





Ok, so now you want a tick to make yourself orgasm. Again, is very simple. Know yourself and listen to your body. That and rub the clitoris. Just follow your body. It will tell you what feels good and what doesn't. The orgasm will follow eventually.








Another thing. What do you call sex? Is sex for you penetration only? I consider sex to be the whole act. For me it start from the moment I start playing and teasing with my wife. Penetration is just one part of the act. A very good part if I may say so but is just part of a whole package. So, bitting, caressing, maybe some oral, or a combination of positions and acts is what I call sex. The sharing. Learning to redefine sex can help you a lot because the moment you do you start seeing things differently. For example, lets say your sister husband gave her oral sex and she orgasm. Was that not sex? Sex is many things to different people. I think is easy to do the mechanical part but that's not all it s. If I just wanted the mechanical aspect of it it would be better to be with a prostitute or a blow up doll. With my wife I can share and feel and experiment and please her and be please. Again, a whole package not just penetration.